m e n g h e r ' s w o n d e r l a n d

07 February 2012

2012-02-07T21:16:00.001+08:00

Today evening scenery..

2012 元宵节

2012-02-06T23:04:00.001+08:00

We found live in a hopeless place..

Chill and windy night..stand alone in the house balcony enjoy the wind breeze.. Such a relaxing night..
Mind started think..
Life can be easy either simple way.

It's depend on what you want and how you choose to live.. Life goes on not matter what.

I shouldnt affected by the negative thought. Instead of negative though, why won't I change it to become other way of motivation from other or encouraging?

Ya, u should bear that in mind. And learn to talk good words, do good things and plant good seeds.

I should encourage the bf and support not pour cold water toward him.

Something interesting he thought me past few days.
I love him is because of his wisdom and attitude not because I love him of his look. Or can be said I LIKE partial part of him like his nose or maybe is his softeness mouth not of his whole look.

爱与喜欢真的是二回事！
你爱他，不代票你爱他的样貌，或许是你喜欢他的样貌而已。

轮回和生老病死。
是可怕还是欢喜都因k个人的想法和看法。

今年的元宵节，有月亮的陪伴但不久后以被乌云盖过了。

大礼物

2012-01-19T23:56:00.001+08:00

这是未兔和龙头送我的新年红包！
发啊！

DIY detachable collar

2012-01-17T22:49:00.001+08:00

After reading my friend blog regarding about DIY collar, make me hand itchy. Wish to own 1 DIY collar to match in any cloths like fashion model on ViVi magazine..

Is a piece of Japanese zakka cloths that order online . Been studying online and google around how to make it but end up failed...

Luckily I went back hometown last week, is a fruitful week!

From A piece of normal cloth end up can be so fashionable! Thanks to behind house aunty. Her magic hand just in a few minutes can transform into what I want.

Seeking my mum as shi fu but she busy and said I don't hv the potential to do sewing stuff. ;s

Thanks god that disappointed me, I manage find my shi fu thou my mum dun want help me.

I did learn many lessons last week. Will be in mind to appreciate with what I had!

感恩！

人来这世界原本就是两手空空，到时间去也是两手空空..

Disobedience

2012-01-04T22:58:00.001+08:00

The teeth move to fast already!
Now the wire move out the bracket.. Very suffer ! I need call dentist for emergency case.. I need align!

G in suit!

2012-01-02T23:50:00.001+08:00

Too bad.. I can't see he wear it..;(

Summary of 2012

2011-12-30T20:10:00.001+08:00

Is time to recap what the's achievement for the year.

1. I been working in a company more than a year.
2. Getting braces done in the month of .. I also forgot already. Now on counting the time to de-braces. ;p
3. Pluck off 2 of my tooths that followed about 10years.
4. Build up more stronger relationship with him.
5. First time step out of the country without parents but with BFF !
6. Purchase my medical card insurance.
7. Reddy get tow 3 times in this year & getting home by tow lorry.
8. Loan from dad beside study now loan and now is ... Loan
9. Received the biggest Christmas present from babe!

I guess here is the top 9 things that I did in year of 2011

...

2011-12-20T23:32:00.001+08:00

我真的很累了。。

03.12.2011

2011-12-03T11:02:00.001+08:00

Wot.. Is December now..
More 20++ days going 2012..

What had I done in the past 2011?
What is my greatest achievement ?
My career path? My relationship?
Or...
Is hard to define it..

December is the month of season greeting to Ang moh but too us.. May be a scare month .. Every one is worry about the raining amount..
Will it cause flood?
Big city like Bangkok also can happens to sink up..
Feel pity to my little old hometown and also my parents.. They need endure mentally suffer during this season, hole us is physical and mentally abuse due to the sink up..

Went to watch Breaking Dawn with bf at melaka last week..
Addicted to the wedding song..
Flightless bird, American mouth by iron and wine..

November event.
Steamboat with BFF,
Tang yuan & making kuih session with mummy,
1st time using bar code purchase movie ticket.

Little toe

2011-12-03T10:51:00.001+08:00

Poor little top hitter by the wooden chop..

Is abt 2 weeks time.. It healing slowly while mum force me to pluck off the finger toe so that it can easily growth new and also help me healing..

Omg.. So geli , I wun do it.. Let it grow slowly den cut it off..

11.11.11

2011-11-11T01:00:00.001+08:00

Happened 100 years a time..
Such a blessing day bring tons of luck to everyone!

& happy 11.11.11 to my Gerald gong gong..

I love u!

肥死我

2011-11-02T23:24:00.001+08:00

我吃我吃我吃吃！
礼拜一才下定决心要把我的＂第三个轮胎＂删掉，晚上也努力的做了7下 sit up.
尽然把今天吃个报仇回！
下午公室去了吃韩国午餐，烤肉及喝泡菜汤。到了傍晚，三姐叫我吃麻辣锅！ u又是吃肉!
我想我真的是肉食动物！! 不对应该是肉食人类！

真的是要命！

Wisdom word

2011-10-16T21:24:00.001+08:00

Mum said "大树已倒，猴子就删"

When a family tree collapse,all the members of family get dismiss..

That's the moral lesson I learned past two days when attended aunt funeral.

Old Chinese tradition use 百折北 for blessing. Not sure i'm writing correct anot..

Polariod

2011-10-14T21:01:00.001+08:00

The 1st polariod with him <3

To Him

2011-09-28T22:59:00.001+08:00

Just wanted to said "thank you for let me participating part in your life".

I love u.. Smooches

Waiting and testing

2011-09-21T23:20:00.001+08:00

La la la.. I want sleep ady, why my babe haven't done wash up?

Testing testing from my iPhun ;p

the Girl & the Boy

2011-08-25T21:37:00.002+08:00

My little precious niece...

Mostly relatives said we both look alike... :P

Anyhow, is great to have them around.. although they prank me always ....

but that's family love. isn't it?

The talkative boy. Like to stick around.

Hope he like the present I bought for him & show me that he improve in his study..

thanks to sis Sony camera... help me to smooth my face till so kilat ....;p

Next dental appointment is after Tpe trip. I already felt movement in the teeth as the gap like getting small or counting as nearer.... is a good significant but... I cant chew much hard food..especially rice.. it keep on go onto the hole.. I scare get infection....

hmm... Is been about 6 days I havent eat white rice except chicken congee. I miss white rice!

Up and Down

2011-08-22T22:51:00.003+08:00

Life is like a roller-coaster.. some time is going up some time is going down. When the roller-coaster is sliding down, everything also follow falling down.

Past few months, i have 26++ tooth but then last wednesday I went pluck off 2 of it for the orthondontic sake. OMG.

Say bye bye to tooth. & thanks doc for pluck off that tooth with black DOT. that's bad tooth will causes other tooth get bacteria infection. while another 1 is healthy. Bye Healthy... :(

Say Hi to the Dark red hole where causes me itchy whenever it's like...

House happened with good news where Sis expected, who knows today hit the news like hit by thunder.. is NO. How could this happen?

One sunny noon, calling to concern home at Segamat who know mum said dad sprained his back. Is hard for him to work now. Now is the month where is the peak period for the dad to work hard then go to enjoy his holiday at oversea yet....

Last night come with a nightmare.. A fight between SGD versus MYR. How could earth this happened to me. Almost made my monday blue + emo day.

Can I call it a day. The END.

I believe tomorrow going be a brand new day as things happen for reason.

Cheer MH...

A Letter to 16 Year Old Me

2011-05-21T21:43:00.002+08:00

Should I write a letter to 16 year old me ?

Ha... That's not a good idea. Some more people live to see forward not backward. No point crying over split milk. most important is that we learn from the past & mistake.

Cheers.

I am lucky enough compare to other. There is no war in the country, natural disaster happen yet flood hit my hometown in the beginning year, I'm in the pink of health except my sensitive nose some time attack me as well as reminder me to clean up my room not letting those spider hirbenate with their grandchilrens.

10 more days, I'm going hit the age of 26. Middle age of twenties and thirties. Is a glory moment or a signigicant of getting older is nearer? Ha.. I should be grateful not rambling about ages thing.

Half of year 2011 had past and I started my working life in society is about 1 year plus. Hope I can get promote in my career path this year. I should work more hard & smart so that boss would appreciate it & hit my KPI. Shouldn't sitting there like oldies, everyday go to work w/out motivation.

Ar Chaa... Add oil, LMH...
U must do well & perform well !!

10 May 2011

2011-05-10T22:21:00.002+08:00

Im officially a braces girl.. or aka as 'Shao ga mui'

This my Do Re Mi teeth .... with imbalance train track..

Jiang jiang jiang ....

Dr Leong put it for me ... ;)

LoL

2011-05-07T14:32:00.001+08:00

I already decided to put on braces.

Next tuesday, another new chapter in my life jounery ... ;p

Bf said

2011-04-03T22:23:00.001+08:00

Bf said he's de person that let me say "yes, no, good, bad and everything I said", he will follow and hear.. Is it true? And he ask me why am I getting mad of him when he's getting many numbers? I dont know how to answer him on that time. What I felt in heart is insecure. I dont hv those type of 'an quan gan' from him. Or am I too sensitive or over react on it?

Third

2011-04-01T20:27:00.000+08:00

The suprising dinner + supper .. V day + 3rd year Anni

Relax tripand enjoyable.. yet broken ur tyre and hurt ur sport rims.. and lost ur contact lens when teaching u swimming ....

Flood?

2011-01-30T20:21:00.001+08:00

I dont want celebrate my cny with flood.
WHy this happen again to my hometown ???

Pray hard... water please go away....
All lates news now is updated by FB ....

Although election happen in Tenang, nothing much can do to stop the rain....
hmm...;(

Money

2011-01-17T22:45:00.000+08:00

How can I use money wisely and spend on what I need not what i want?

I want to saving but interest in bank is too low yet also I dont have any saving. Dont ever mention saving, even insurance I also didnt purchase. Am I living in a guarantee life is Im secured by insurance?

I dont know. Seem like my money management sense is ZERO. I dont have any planning yet saving. Like nowaday youngster that spent without thinking or known well as 'strawberry' group that always dependent on the old.

I dont have any liabilities of car loan but study loan from ptptn. Wondering whether I should sign up for the 1% interest charge contract with 15 years time to repay loan or just leave. Repay when I hv money or wait till the time authority to take action?

Sighs...

What am I wondering? Money wont drop from heaven if u didnt work for it. Any other thing I can do to save for future or raining day?

I need kick off those bad habit that buying unecessary wants.

Year 2011 just began.... yet I'm so long-winded about it. How am I going to go through all this?
I want a better life ... yet doing nothing. Stupid of me !!!

Maybe i should knock my head over the wall so that I stay awake ....

Shit

2011-01-16T22:39:00.003+08:00

Crap of bull shit..........

Project 365 #3

2011-01-03T22:33:00.001+08:00

Watson Pooh series.

Love, Health, Wealth & Luck
if i not remember wrong..

Project 365 #2

2011-01-02T23:01:00.002+08:00

The happy siblings

Project 365 #1

2011-01-02T22:46:00.004+08:00

雪黎白木耳汤水（加料的是洗碗扑在里面)

Cindy's Potrait

2011-01-02T22:32:00.003+08:00

Smile

See my fly

The naughty behind..

grumpy

Angry + naughty

Peace

The forcing smiling & failure capture

Shhhh

Peace, i secretly plug off grandma flower....=p

Home sweet home

2011-01-02T22:09:00.002+08:00

Luckily i made the decision to back home last week. Is tiring but yet fun.

I did learn something as bff keep on ask me 'what is my goal or dream or wish in 2011?'

At 1st, I realy didnt thought anything of it. Just answer like nothing lo...

But I'm wrong.... I poundering the question on the journey back home.

What I want in my life? my career, love, family and etc etc...

Heck... I think .... seem like long time i didnt use my brain...
That's amazing feeling when my brain stark to work and think.

Many question in my mind but w/out answer.

I not sure i'm de ppl who escaping from reality or dishonest. I not dare to ask and also seek for answer.

I want make resolution for 2011.

1. Earn more MONEY & Saving smart way
2. Advance my career path, I want be SENIOR or higher excutive lvl not longer junior.
3. Be smart yet and dumb in the time.
4. be INDEPENDENT
5. No more PROCRASTINATION.

This 5 goals, I must achieve it !!!!!

2010

2010-12-28T22:03:00.004+08:00

What I learnt from 2010 & what I gained from 2010.

1. my 1st real job that lasted for half year.
Thanks for the 'memory', CI

2. RIP, grandpa - Lost another 1 kin that nearest to my mum

3. Hoegarden + ice cream

Never been a good taste.

Many lesson been thought in previous company, especially 'office politic' just like how the drink taste.

4. More & more gathering with 'ji muis'

Appreciated the people around you

5. My Nikon baby + new hobby (end up now bcum sleeeping hobby)

Getting more gadgets. All credited to the bf that bring me into IT world.

From my bday present Satio to Iphone.

6. Travels

Pocket money from Bro

To the country where nearby the Sun rises place

RWS + MBS = one day trip

Batam. Short & relaxing trip

7. I failed & passed my PIAM exam. What a shame. =(

Lessons

8. Time management between work & part time work.

9. HEALTH and Emotion Management.

10. Career path & life motivation

11. Money management

12. WANTS & NEEDS. been very poor to differentiate it. Always failed in wants. I should wash my brain away from wants.

That's my so called 2010. What will be in coming 2011?

Should I write my 2011 reso ?

Check this out..

2010-12-19T21:16:00.002+08:00

Babe got me this.. while I get the mirror screen protector.
Kinda hard to see under sunlight..

New favourite game. Smurfs Village

Another mirror effect...

Gold watch for young lady?

Casio... the loyal brand...

Silly me

2010-12-06T23:52:00.001+08:00

A few pictures from Orchard after hunting memory card at Lucky Plaza.

Silly and blurry me, forgot bring memory card along...

Human avatar by Citbank

new version human Avatar?

Crystal 超浪漫求婚 .

2010-11-24T22:54:00.000+08:00

special?

Is time

2010-11-18T22:22:00.002+08:00

Another decision to make again.

I think I need to plan again my financial...

I cant spend spulge. Save for future ...

Why money make ppl suffer??

Yet.... many people still like it.........

Been woking a year++. yet i dun hv any saving... shame on me...............

I hate...............

我的她，她的她。。

2010-11-15T22:03:00.003+08:00

生老病死，

是每个人必须经过的过程，也是生命的巡换。

要这么看待，也是看个人看方。

她心里依然还是放不下她。。。
她对自己感到内疚，亏欠，对不起也来不及。。。的那一棵也已经过去了。

她已到了另外一个仙境，过了无优无里。。。高高兴兴的环游世界。。。

您要懂得放和理解，这是对她好也是对你好。。。
打开你的心，让这个心结慢慢的打开。

世界还有很多很美丽在等你去发觉和领悟。。。。

You

2010-11-03T23:46:00.002+08:00

I pray hard....

I try to put my effort and spend more time with you.

I still wan go traveeling with you with my earn money.

I still wanna teach you how to use computer so that you can FB-ing with us or skype with us...

I wan teach u bowling ..

I want you stay healthy and mind clear.

I want you be cheer up wheneve u are.

I want you know that we always love you.

I want you know that not matter what, it doesn't troublesome us, that's our duty.

I want you to let us know how you feel whether you happy, sad, emo or uncertainty.

I still want you know, WE really care about You.

You are not a burden to us, but Precious tou us.

You always take good care of us, is time for us to take good care of you too...

I want hold your hand to do grocery or shopping or anything that you want to do.

Pls open your heart to us and accept the truth of reality that ......

I pray that you can eat well, love well & pray well....

Try set your mind free from the past...........

Lesson

2010-11-03T00:01:00.002+08:00

pls dont use excuse to do something u will regret in future.

*cross finger*

I hope things that I had done today is correct. I have no regret...

I tears as much as I can yet I didnt said out......

Tears probably is my best friend.....

10.10.2010

2010-10-10T21:54:00.003+08:00

A special date ?

October is a month that had 5 days of fridays, 5 weeks in a month.
which mean a long month to past for ppl who work ..

Hmm... why am I choosing this month to start a new job?
anyhow, hope I really can learn from this job, even though the environment is so so .... n I need the suck blood parking rate, others is still acceptable as I manage to learn and explore more.

*cross fringer*
I must stay strong!!!

P/s .. another 4mths++ is going to be our 3rd year anni. Gentle reminder from him . =)

Red apple + Green aple

那么辛苦。。

2010-10-07T23:20:00.002+08:00

如果做的那么累，就别做咯。
在找份新工咯。。。

hmmm.... i'm so blessed...

this is wat mom tell me this afternoon ...
I didnt complain but telling her that my current work now...
yet she replies me like this...

*blush-es*

Thanks mum... but let me try 1st k ?

Dear Gerald

2010-09-30T17:20:00.001+08:00

Dedication to u..

thanks for taking care me during sick time....
im not mean to nag, but also nag for ur own good..
hope next time u be more smart lo... den i wun nag again ..=p

风人官

2010-09-29T23:46:00.001+08:00

病人与护士?

不爽不爽不爽不爽不爽不爽

2010-08-26T22:18:00.002+08:00

我是坏蛋吗??

我是小气鬼吗?

当我听见他们说，父母只sponsor一个人去韩国时，我有不高兴吗??

我知道我还没钻过钱但我也没要求要去...

我制度指明自己的能力到那里，也没说非去不可。

但却被你们说成我会生气和小气因为没得去。

好烦也很不爽!!!

oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh

2010-08-25T21:51:00.002+08:00

i know im going korea but i dont have those kind of excitment or joy.

my mind just appear is $$ prob?

even though i dont hv much commitment but some how i can feel that money is always an issue to every people.

i know i didnt spent much but i spent on nonsense. i dont hv much saving yet hv any assets yet.

i not sure whether i shld go or shldnt.

i had to see many party of face. even though parents agree to sponsor me but.. siblings still disagree, they wish i pay part of the tour fees and also some allowance for the parents.

what am i bother ??????

080810

2010-08-24T22:54:00.000+08:00

Congratulation to Eng Eng & LC

Yes Or No

2010-08-24T22:52:00.000+08:00

Thats the answer?

which 1 u like the most ??

dont have 'Dont Know' this word...

Accesories

2010-08-23T20:36:00.000+08:00

Lens filter for my Nicon Baby + bro's canon

Camera hood. Really kena hook lo by the SA.

I bought so expensive for the hood. But worthable for the filter lens...

Good hobby but high maintenance

2010-08-10T22:15:00.000+08:00

This is my new toy.

New hobby that required high maintenance. Im now in a commitment that i shouldnt have. Anyhow, happy to belong it because exchange it with Babe's HTC HD2. Thanks Babe.

01.08.2010 - DOB of Mengher's Nikon D3000. ^^

While this is belong to dad not me. Another commitment in family that sacrifice my Korea trip during this raya. Sighs...

Anyhow, is time for parents to enjoy their life. As child, all we can do is to be more fillial and cherish them.

crap

2010-07-29T20:33:00.000+08:00

when we young, we use to blog our daily activities.

when grow elder, we blog our problems and matters.

when when we enter the society of work, we getting less and less blog.

some time even dont know what we struggle for life.

the let blog alone in the cyber space.

am i a good blogger or just that im too lazy for it..

If i were the boy..

2010-07-03T22:54:00.003+08:00

Im not sure im the boy or ther girls..

Everything seem change .....
Perspective, views, opinions ..................
Life........

How I wish I could have a magic wand to do what ever I like...........

But I'm lucky girl and glad...
Suprise visit from parents & bro make me T____T

Baby

2010-05-22T07:59:00.002+08:00

Recently been reading many news about divorcing, killing and even murder baby. Is this life is easy as ABC? some people had struggle all his/her life to battle with sickness and also a bowl rice but them?

They can so easily give up their life due to the stress or pressure that environment causes?

Yesterday, a couple poisoned their baby before jumping off from their condo, a newly couple that underage had born a baby, and burried by her bf after deliver the baby.........

What an easy life to them .........

Sighs...

I pleaded to myself, will try to sponsor a child form world vision for the world children sake .........

Confirm?

2010-05-21T21:24:00.000+08:00

I think i already get confirmation from my boss...

Confirm = Accepted?

Weaknesees.. Need SPEED up in working maner.. and learn more ........

Banned banned banned

2010-05-16T22:12:00.001+08:00

Pls banned me from entering LYN & also blogshop for this moment.

My acct numbers decrease everyday....

I need add more ZERO behind instead of deducting it.

Somebody pls banned me online shop either 'window' online shop too !!!!!

Randomness

2010-05-10T22:26:00.004+08:00

The naught yet adorable kiddo

Like picture said, 'Hate or Heart it?'

An apple or something white?

English potrait in changing room

What his name? From Madagasacar rite?

The cam-whore partner..

Soft cake Tiramisu... replace the old stlye lady finger biscuit..

爆发户

2010-04-29T23:03:00.002+08:00

According to wikipedia '爆发户' mean ,

指一个人在自己这一代期间就取得了可观的财富。通常情况下，被冠以暴发户称号的人之前往往都处于一个较低的社会阶层......

More info here

If one day, u become 爆发户' , is this ur fortune day or ur luckiest day in ur life?

Safely

2010-04-29T22:52:00.001+08:00

Brother Andy had safely touch down in Msia after detention in London Airport for 1days.

As he careles lost his passport when thought of buying a cup of drinks while waiting the plane.

Poor him... and also fall sick during his backpack trip to Europe tour.

The day She wear the Square hat

2010-04-26T22:00:00.004+08:00

Pics shall talk than I type..

The card

Cartoon is based on this picture

The Queen

Alice - Eng Eng

Stephanie - Stephy po po

Meng Her - ah Gal po po

Wai C.. Sandy mumy with Zoenna

Sam - Chiao Yen

What if ...

2010-04-26T21:51:00.002+08:00

If one day, suddenlt u get fortune with a pot of money or U win 4D or u so lucky till get win a big sum of money in lucky draw, What would you think ?

Is your really coming or just a significant that you death date is coming soon.

I not sure is a good significant or bad significant. Some may said is good, some may not.
Well, all i believe is everything happen for a reason and also there is NO free Lunch in this world.

People may lucky born with gold key, some people even need work hard a whole life also cant earn that much money.

We should content with what have as well as thanks God that you still able to breath in the next morning.

Life may be easy, and also may hard. It just depend on how you look on it.

Well, what if ............

Ai

2010-04-11T22:43:00.001+08:00

愛
它是一個難寫的字
我喜歡
它原來的樣子這個寬頻的都市
令我最常想的事
就是下載你的記憶幾小時...

By Yuki.

Needs and Wants - Part 2

2010-04-07T22:29:00.002+08:00

Im still wondering, what people living for ..

Money ? Fame ? Happiness ? Lie ? or the Pretender?

Which categorise am I ?

I also not sure.
From recently study, that's a lot of things that I wants appear in my mind & my devil-ish twin keep on wash my brain. All those luxurius things keep appear in my mind and persuade me to get it & also the demon around me. I not sure i can resist the temptation or not but... MONEY is the biggest matter to me.

That's the good barrried as well as also a GOOD excuse for me not to get those stuffs.

haha.. Enough for short post ramblings.

Office Rules No.1

2010-03-24T22:38:00.002+08:00

-家是不可外穿-

笨蛋的规矩。我们是同一个办公室的，不是她说那就是我们说。
那是什么道理啊，没做也要吃这种死猫吗??

真的是‘吧卡’!!!

Lao shu = mice?

2010-03-23T22:08:00.002+08:00

如果真的有一天

爱情理想会实现我

会加倍努力好好

对你永远不改变

不管路有多么远

一定会让它实现

....不单行

2010-03-22T22:08:00.000+08:00

爱
只有简单笔画
却比想象复杂
很安定爱变化
我爱过几个人
也被爱过几遍
却还是没能将幸福留下

Sources : 罗志祥 - 爱不单行

你知道吗

2010-03-20T23:54:00.001+08:00

原来，我是那样的。。。。。

那就是，什么也不是。。。

心情

2010-03-20T00:34:00.001+08:00

笑了一场，
也大哭了一场。。。。

那可怕的是我连笑和哭都，傻傻分不清楚。。。

Lesson

2010-03-17T22:48:00.002+08:00

真爱的恋情必须经过四个阶段

一个成熟的爱情...
有一位心理学家曾写过，一个成熟称得上真爱的恋情必须经过四个阶段，
那就是：
- 共存
- 反依赖
- 独立
- 共生

第一个阶段：共存
这是热恋期间，情人不论何时何地总希望能黏在一起。

第二个阶段：反依赖
等到情感稳定后，至少会有一方想要有多一点自己的时间做自己想做的事，这时另一方就会感到被冷落。

第三个阶段：独立
这是第二个阶段的延续，要求更多独立自主的时间。

第四个阶段：共生这时新的相处之道已经成形，你的他/她已经成为你最亲的人。你们在一起相互扶持，一起开创属于你们自己的人生。你们在一起不会互相牵绊，而会互相成长。

但是，大部分的人都通过不了第二和第三阶段，而选择分手，这是非常可惜的。

很多事只要好好沟通都会没事的，不要耍个性，不要想太多，要互相信任，这样，第二和第三阶段的时间就会缩短。

和所爱的人相遇相恋是非常不容易的，不要轻言放弃。

两人相聚是因为有缘，相知是因为有心，真的得好好珍惜这福分。希望能给大家一些启示和领悟，并惜缘。

我们会渐渐变成我们所爱的人。你和他本来没有相同之处，外表不相像，性格也南辕北撤,一旦爱上了，年深日久，你会惊讶你的眼睛有点像他的眼睛，他的微笑也有点像你的微笑。你们走路的步伐也有点相似，说话的语气也越来越相像。原来我们会变成我们所爱的人。

你本来喜欢脚踏实地的人，而他一向比较轻佻，但你们爱上了，他竟会不知不觉变成一个老实人，这个改变，连他自己也不曾察觉。他本来喜欢活泼的女孩，却爱上拘谨的你，这些日子，你竟会越来越活泼，你差点认不出自己。我们会逐渐变成对方理想中的人，这种改变绝对不是刻意的。两个人越爱得长久，气质也越来越相近。

你曾经以为他不是你梦寐以求的那种类型，然而，有一天，你会惊讶的发现，他已经变成你喜欢的那种类型，你不必再到处寻觅，他就是你要找的人。深深爱着一个人的时候，你原来真的会一点一点的失去自己，为什么你还会觉得快乐呢？大概是因为你在失去的时候，你把他的气质和微笑都赚回来了。

幸福很单纯，所以要很单纯的人才容易获得。

真爱就是不轻言放弃

Sources from here

Video from here

March 2010

2010-03-02T22:12:00.002+08:00

So fast 2 months of 2010 already past yet I have started work in the company for 7 days to be exact.

So far so good. But in the meanwhile, I did also apply for other jobs. Just for in case or I cant stand it. Haha.. SO fast find another alternate ways for me.

Hmm.. I not sure whther accounting line suit for me, but i had down in this line a few years. I strike distinction for all calculating subjects as well as accounting paper. Why I didnt choose Accounting as major instead of Finance?

Did I make a wrong decision?

Well, just a short rambling. Gotta back with my monthly budget as I already received PTPTN letter. Time for me to clear my debts as well as duty as a daughter to parents, and also my 'coconut fund' to buy 525I.

*Chio*

Taste or Preference?

2010-02-07T10:40:00.001+08:00

Every girl need a pair of ballet pump shoe or most common known as flaten shoe.
I use to wear this shoe as it convenience and easily to mix n match with pants that I usual manage.

Here is the pair of ballet pump I get, my sis name it as 'paku'/nail shoe. They teased me always get weirdo stuff or design thing. But what, today both my sis get a pair of 'paku'/nail shoe for their own.

Hmmm... Is this influence by me or they actually like it ? hehe... Maybe an excusing to tease my preference or taste.

& another miracle... Hmm.. I dont think is miracle but coincidence, three of us grow a pimple in our face. Mine and big sis is on right side of the face while 3rd sis's pimple is on left side. Haha...

Maybe that is what we called sibling or blood is thicker than water. Some time we also will hv the same date of 'aunty visit' or continuos day by influence each other.. Hehe ...=)

Everything be fine...

2010-02-07T00:24:00.002+08:00

Here is the big ulcer that attack me... Pray hard it recover b4 cny ....
*God bless me*

My poor hand.. Get burn when cook the vege. Luckily it didnt bcum 'ba gua' tat we used to eat on CNY ... Guai2 apply hand cream so that it recover soon ... ^^

A scenario

2010-02-01T16:16:00.002+08:00

Scenarion happen at one of the Breadtalk shop where a counter with 2 black female workers.

*I'm waiting to pay money for the bread*

Worker A : Only us people will willing to work at such place.
Worker B : What to do, we only have those skills.
Worker A : Why cant we have other jobs opportunity beside this kind of job?
Worker B : We lazy to find a better job some more is good to stay in comforty place like this as well as the environment. Not need compete with others..
*Worker A staring her eyes to Worker B*

I did sense some of meanings that the Worker A trying to deliver the messages. I didnt care much but paid for the bread and walk away.

Moral of story?

I guess everyone has its own opinion. I had mine in heart & share with my bestie already..

How about u ?

Random

2010-01-31T00:01:00.002+08:00

Hmmm...

Obviously that 28 Jan 2010 is not my day. Ppl had been ffk me ...

Hate it.... Suppose is a good beginning for year 2010 end up ...

Haiz...

I also dont know. Even though i had sis support and back up me but i still felt that I missed out something or lake of something.

Now the siblings is in cold war. Im in the team with 3rd sis. 3 rd sis back up me because of my bro acting.

In front, bro will comfort me and advice me about my career prospect but behind, he told my mum & big sis that im '10 har 10 har' *in cantonese*. Dont know what job that people offer me.

I really dont know what characters he is paying but what I understand from the situation now is he wont talk me in quite some time. I blocked him in msn, not to avoid him but preparing myself how to face him during in CNY time.

Enough for rambling tonight. Is time for bed.

Btw, I did saw the greatness of a mother and the pantience toward baby or children. Mummy 24/7 for their children. I saw it through 3rd sis. Having a baby is a whole life commitment. Is not easy but need a lot of tolenrance, responsibility, & displince.

280110

2010-01-27T23:47:00.001+08:00

Hmmm.. tomorrow is the day.

Not sure is a good day or a bad day...

But pretty sure that nagging n rambling from bro is kinda frustrated.

This is my own career path my future, let me decide by my own.

Dont always said that I dont have opinion and just simply do without thinking.

I had my own freedom. Is a democratic country, even mum didnt object what I am doing now. So pls be considerate.

God bless me... Hv a beauty sleep tonight...

*Fighting*

Hair

2010-01-14T22:44:00.002+08:00

The main problem to a girl is how to manage it hair.
I use to hair black, straight but not silky hair la..

Since the last time I permed it, my hair grow opposite way. The hair didnt grow and be straight but grow to the opposite site. My left side hair doesnt give me any problem but the right side always grown zig-zag. I hate it.. Use straighten cream to straight it but no works...

Im thinking to give it a treatment or go for rebonding not straightening.

Rebonding will opt to more natural while straightening look like ruler and dull.

Hope it didnt create any more trouble if i choose for rebonding... =p

Try or Do?

2010-01-12T23:57:00.001+08:00

DO and TRY is 2 different thing.

DO is u put ur effort when u doing something to gain the result.

While Try is Luck. U use ur luck to try on doing something, if failed, u didnt felt lost or sad because u Try not DO...

Girls' Y theory

2010-01-09T17:07:00.001+08:00

Interview = Insonmia

? ? ? ? ?

Help

2010-01-05T23:25:00.002+08:00

Do I need the help?

This 2 days been bust with interviewed session.
Trying my best to performance well as well as a good beginning for the year 2010,

I try my best and own ability to perform it. Result will be out in this 2 weeks time.

Someone persuaded me that I needed recommendation to enter the company. This would help me to get the job offer more easier.

I rejected the suggestion and even try persuaded them the that I need to get the job by my own ability no helping from other. I hope they can respect me and also give me a chance to show my qualification.

R E S O L U T I O N 2010

2009-12-30T22:34:00.000+08:00

Do you believe in that?
All those resolutions just a way to cheat ourselves that we are a better human ?

Hmm.. I dont know.
But I wish to make resolution for year 2010.
I want motivate myself and achieve it.

Resolution 2010
a. Get more slim. Promise myself to diet. 5Kgs to go.
b. Get a better job with a better paid
c. Settle off my PTPTN loan which is a heavy burden to me
d. Be more mature in decision making.
e. Last but not least, get more WEALTHY as well HEALTHY !!

Cheating 2

2009-12-28T22:43:00.000+08:00

Or you been cheating by others?

Cheating

2009-12-28T00:33:00.000+08:00

Hv u ever cheating someone?

Am i Arrogant?

2009-12-23T22:08:00.002+08:00

I know i am a bad friends.

I know sure whether I am a bad friend or I am too arrogant. I didnt approve her in my FB even though we been best friend in secondary school but screwed after we went high school.

She take initiave to message me in FB and asked me to added in her.
But I didnt.
Today I received her email again.

Once again, I didnt approve her in my FB friend's list.

As far as what I known, she is planning to marry in next year. Maybe she trying yo use this chance to amended our friendship or pure wanna invite me to her wedding for blessing.

I dont know...
She still in my friend's pending list. Not sure whther to approve or ignore there...

Am I a bad friend?

没关系

2009-12-23T21:58:00.002+08:00

刚印证工作回，很可惜是白走一趟。
公司已录取她人了。

但高兴的事，他让我知道我在这市场还有价值的。

傍晚时，妈妈的来电，感动了我。

她说:没关系,这次不成，再接再力去找其它的。一定能找到的。

妈，谢谢你的来电。
还有你温柔的问候。

Evil Smile

2009-12-04T13:25:00.001+08:00

Someone going back tonight!!

Tonight ...

Nop should be Saturday morning is the time~~

Hehehe....*grins*

Im sorry

2009-11-24T15:55:00.002+08:00

I know I did many bad recently.
Those arguments, lie and bad attitude.

I act as I like, what I think is right, do what I think is right.
It may hurt ur heart and again and again.

Looking at the mistake I done, the disobey of me.
The stubborn of both us.

I didnt think of your side but throwing tantrum on U.

The bad tempers that both of us had will never ending.
The dont want lose attitude and big head of each other make us argue more and more.

I dont know what wrongs that happened on me or us.
Just know that, I owe you an apologise.

"What do I do to make you love me
What have I got to do to be heard
What do I do when lightning strikes me
What have I got to doWhat have I got to do
When SORRY seems to be the hardest word"

screwed it

2009-11-22T21:32:00.003+08:00

I know everything happen wrong ...
when it started with my attitude .

I been suckling always and do things w/out thinking.

I hate this kind of me.

I hate myself..

Everything that recently do is not right.

I cant blame anyone beside myself. I been slacking too much & irresponsible.

I wasted my life, i wasted time that everyone use wisely...............

Needs or Wants?

2009-11-12T00:08:00.002+08:00

Yet too many things want to buy..

But where's the source of MONEY come????

我毕业了

2009-11-07T22:39:00.002+08:00

我真实毕业了 ~~

31 Oct 2009.

毕业=失业

哈哈，大约是那样说吧。

还在游游空档的不知做什么

我的家人

Papa, Mama & Gal

2009-10-26T12:44:00.000+08:00

Happy belated 60th birthday, Dad.

Barbie

2009-10-24T12:35:00.000+08:00

"I'm a barbie girl that live in a plastic world.
Life is fantastic when everything is arranged by others... "

小宝宝

2009-10-23T12:47:00.000+08:00

家的新成员，‘浸豪’
带来新希望，欢笑，快乐，欢喜，哭声。
可爱的宝宝，让全家又喜又哭。

Kitty w/out Ears

2009-10-22T23:41:00.001+08:00

Kitty, originally uploaded by mengher86.

Poor kitty that without a pair of cute ears

Flickr

2009-10-22T23:38:00.001+08:00

This is a test post from , a fancy photo sharing thing.

FAKE

2009-10-09T20:51:00.000+08:00

Just a sharing info of a Taiwan brand beauty product.

Name Shills Cherry Blossom 6in1 BB Cream.

I have order this product through a spree from a local online seller as well as loca celebrity. I choosed to order with her because I trust her and she did her selling business in her own blog site. & I was happy dealing with her as the product reach safely to me after 3 weeks time.

I been use the product for several times and leave because of the shade is too fair and not suitable.

Till just now, I read a local beauty blogger comment that she bough a fake product of SHILLS cherry blosson BB cream & she commented how to spot the FAKE product. Link

Without hesi tate, I search mine BB cream to check my tube of Shills BB cream. According to her analysis the fake product come with 4 significations :

a) sticker

b) the bb cream shade is more fairer

c) the color font of description

d) the box

While my BB cream only able to show 3 significants of the fake as I had thrown away the box. ;(

Lets the picture talk :

a) Sticker

b) Grey color font (w/out flash)

c) The BB Cream shade

Sorry for the blurry picture as Im using my sis old Nikon camera.

Movie

2009-10-03T18:09:00.000+08:00

Am feeling much better from yesterday ?
I guess.. should be...

Coz i been youtube-ing for the latest movies trailer. Yet, almost of the movies I wanted to watch had on air long time ago. Maybe I been berkulat-ing at home town. Dont hv cinema neither motivation to watch it.

Here is the rank :

1. Disney Pixar UP

UP

Pixar animation fans from Toy Story to Finding Nemo to Car to Ratatouille .... and now UP.
Childishness of me. Cartoon always my first choice when think of watching movie.

Follow by,

Ghosts of Girlfriends Past

Hehe.. Should be comedy+love movie. Already on air long time ago as many cinemas already out of show.

The Proposal.

Comedy+love movie too. The trailer make me laugh and the some of the scenes are very funny too..

The Ugly Truth

Coming soon in cinema. Hehe. Like this movie also because of the main actress Gerard Butter. Been catching it's PS I Love You. And his latest work piece is The Ugly Truth.

Random

2009-09-15T22:59:00.002+08:00

Because of hot weather & travelled a lot.
Finally, fall sick.
Low BP, sore throat => monthly friend visit that will attack me once.

Smiling Davian,

The signficant of age increase.

Mummy bought for me for anti-aging. Not anti-acne. *sweat*

Daddy 60th Birthday.

Stephy add on 1 year

2009-09-10T17:09:00.003+08:00

Happy birthday to Stephy.

May you stay happily and lucky always although unhappy incident happened ur last trip.

Hope everything goes well on you. Good de come bad de go far far away...

Happy 23rd birthday..

Faster back Sgt den we 5 can go out lepak together and do Girly things together... ^^

Job

2009-09-02T18:25:00.002+08:00

How to work out with a good resume and getting a better job?

Im not demanding or choosy or picky, just that I didnt manage to get any call for interview.

Maybe my resume didnt work out for me?

Or maybe my enthusiasm to get a job not that work???

What am I thiking? I really wish to get a proper job.

Is been 3months I finished my study yet I still doing nothing beside working part time account and part time Nanny....

15Malaysia - House

2009-08-24T15:57:00.002+08:00

Just watched 4 filem from 15Malaysia.

Been watched Potong Saga, Chocolate, The Tree & House.

House is among my favourite. It touched my heart.

Pls learn the moral of story in the films. Is really inspired us. How shameful our life are.....-.-

MAS tol free line S*ck

2009-08-19T23:30:00.002+08:00

WT Pooh....

I did wrong again ... I amended sis flight name with her english name which mean it not same as her NRIC either passport. I already paid RM65 for the amended yet I amend wrong.

I called back to MAS to double check whether sis able to check in the flight with different name of flight ticket and passport name. The call center said cant. And Im asking her any other solutions or help me amended again as I not yet receive the email notification, the call center very arrogant answer me with NO.

She cant help do anything beside amend it again with penalty RM65 or FORFEIT the ticket.

WT pooh...
I been paid RM88 for origin flight, then with amended name add on the RM134. And now I need amend again, which mean I need paid RM199 for a local flight from KLIA to JB. The credit bill had charge on 2 prices for the flight & interest had count in. I need wait till next statemnent only will receive the refund. Is not worth with counting the opportunity cost.

Sh*t.........

I think I rather choose forfeit the ticket and book again with RM88.

Till now, I still havent receive the emaill notification and MAS hotline is sick. Always need call for 3 or 4 times and waited about 8 minutes only will be entertained by the officer. If not the operator will keep on the change to line other department till the line engaged. I hate it !!!!!!!!!!

Tomorrow for sure I be scolding by sis as well as mum...

Haiiiizz.......... what the pooh day ~~~~~~~~~`

2009-08-07T01:07:00.002+08:00

Air....

I need some air & time.

I know I cant complete work on time this is due to my absent in work time. This not I want but you didnt let me bk here.

Hope you can understanding my circumstances............

END

m e n g h e r ' s w o n d e r l a n d

07 February 2012

2012 元宵节

大礼物

DIY detachable collar

Disobedience

G in suit!

Summary of 2012

...

03.12.2011

Little toe

11.11.11

肥死我

Wisdom word

Polariod

To Him

Waiting and testing

the Girl & the Boy

Up and Down

A Letter to 16 Year Old Me

10 May 2011

LoL

Bf said

Third

Flood?

Money

Shit

Project 365 #3

Project 365 #2

Project 365 #1

Cindy's Potrait

Home sweet home

2010

Check this out..

Silly me

Crystal 超浪漫求婚 .

Is time

我的她， 她的她。。

You

Lesson

10.10.2010

那么辛苦。。

Dear Gerald

风人官

不爽不爽不爽不爽不爽不爽

oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh

080810

Yes Or No

Accesories

Good hobby but high maintenance

crap

If i were the boy..

Baby

Confirm?

Banned banned banned

Randomness

爆发户

Safely

The day She wear the Square hat

What if ...

Ai

Needs and Wants - Part 2

Office Rules No.1

Lao shu = mice?

....不单行

你知道吗

心情

Lesson

March 2010

Taste or Preference?

Everything be fine...

A scenario

Random

280110

Hair

Try or Do?

Girls' Y theory

Help

R E S O L U T I O N 2010

Cheating 2

我的她，她的她。。